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Sunday 17 November 2013

Men Women daily lifestyle : A realistic view

It would have been amazing if men and women could switch places and walk in
each other's shoes for a mile, even if just for a day.
Let men feel what being fondled in public feels like, and then being blamed for it because of their choice of clothes.
Let men feel the burden of bringing up children who for the first five years of their
life literally cannot live without their mothers, then for the next ten make constant demands on them, and for the next fifteen keep ignoring them.
Let men feel how burdensome it must be to
perform well at work just to be told that it's their hair or their revealing clothes or
their "assets" that get them the promotion. Let men feel the silently critical eyes of
society on themselves when they get ahead in their careers - "What a b***h, man, it's her maids who have practically brought up
her children!", and the taunts and jibes from her own family when they come back
tired from work only to have the rest of the family expecting them to magically
transform into a domestic goddess. Let men feel the intense resentment when
husbands or boyfriends or fathers happily take credit for their women's successes. Let men feel the shackles of millennia of patriarchy when they are forced to suffix their names with their spouse's.
If we can empathize with this, then by all means let us hate on and denounce feminists. Until such empathy arises in us, let's try to understand where that anger and outrage (and often loads of crappy arguments) come from.

A man can battle against all odds, every day, if he knows that he will be loved and cared for when he comes back home. That he mcan be vulnerable and share his defeats without fear of ridicule. Similarly, a woman can bear all, when she knows that there is a strong shoulder on which she can lean, that someone will not let her fall. And place a strong, mentally independent mother-figure in a boy's life, he, more often than not, will grow up to be a gentleman.

its about yin and yang,that is if you understand the concept,a simple law of nature which creates equilibrium in the world. Male and female are not equal but supreme forms of themselves. Yet another simple law of the universe "karm" ensures the balance in actions,if
people understand these simple nuances of the universe all ills of this human society would slowly vanish.

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