It would have been amazing if men and
women could switch places and walk in
each other's shoes for a mile, even if just
for a day.
Let men feel what being fondled in public
feels like, and then being blamed for it
because of their choice of clothes.
Let men feel the burden of bringing up
children who for the first five years of their
life literally cannot live without their
mothers, then for the next ten make
constant demands on them, and for the
next fifteen keep ignoring them.
Let men feel how burdensome it must be to
perform well at work just to be told that
it's their hair or their revealing clothes or
their "assets" that get them the promotion.
Let men feel the silently critical eyes of
society on themselves when they get ahead
in their careers - "What a b***h, man, it's
her maids who have practically brought up
her children!", and the taunts and jibes
from her own family when they come back
tired from work only to have the rest of
the family expecting them to magically
transform into a domestic goddess.
Let men feel the intense resentment when
husbands or boyfriends or fathers happily
take credit for their women's successes.
Let men feel the shackles of millennia of
patriarchy when they are forced to suffix
their names with their spouse's.
If we can empathize with this, then by all
means let us hate on and denounce
feminists. Until such empathy arises in us,
let's try to understand where that anger
and outrage (and often loads of crappy
arguments) come from.
A
man can battle against all odds, every day,
if he knows that he will be loved and cared
for when he comes back home. That he
mcan be vulnerable and share his defeats
without fear of ridicule. Similarly, a woman
can bear all, when she knows that there is
a strong shoulder on which she can lean,
that someone will not let her fall. And
place a strong, mentally independent
mother-figure in a boy's life, he, more
often than not, will grow up to be a
gentleman.
its about yin and yang,that is if you
understand the concept,a simple law of
nature which creates equilibrium in the
world. Male and female are not equal but
supreme forms of themselves.
Yet another simple law of the universe
"karm" ensures the balance in actions,if
people understand these simple nuances of
the universe all ills of this human society
would slowly vanish.
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Sunday 17 November 2013
Men Women daily lifestyle : A realistic view
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